Kirsty Young has recalled how having to step away from broadcasting for a few years due to her chronic pain condition caused her to question her own identity, saying “you lose your sense of self”.
Appearing on a special edition of Radio 4’s Desert Island Discs, which she presented for 12 years, Young told current host Lauren Laverne that she is now feeling “so much better” – and reflected on the experience of returning to broadcasting.
The 54-year-old TV and radio presenter hosted nearly 500 editions of the show between 2006 and 2018, before having to leave to undergo treatment for fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis.
In the broadcast, airing on Christmas Day, Young explained that she originally spent a year seeing different specialists, trying to work out what was the nature of her condition until she found a “brilliant” professor of rheumatology who diagnosed her.
She said he also warned her that she had to take her condition “seriously” and reduce the stress in her life alongside the medical treatment in order to get better.
“It was said with extreme kindness but it was just a moment of absolute reality and clarity and I remember I pulled my car over and just had a good old, to use a good Scottish word, a good old greet and I thought ‘right, well, them’s the facts and you’re really going to have to think about this’,” she said.
“I’m very aware in talking about this, people sit opposite physicians and get diagnoses that are much more serious than the one I got, but it’s a very painful thing and I was in pain and a chronic long-term pain condition is an absolute pain, literally and metaphorically, to deal with.
“It grinds you away, you lose your personality, you lose your sense of humour, you lose your sense of self. There’s all sorts of things that go with it. It’s awful. So I had to take it seriously if I was going to get better. So, I did.”
Young admitted that she felt “very shaky” having to leave her broadcast job, which she “absolutely loved”.
She added: “I thought if I’m not that, what am I for? What is a Kirsty for? I did feel that.
“That was ridiculous, obviously, because to use that well-worn phrase, ‘The cracks are where the light gets in’, and all sorts of other things happened that were good things.
“At that moment, you kind of lose yourself. And when you’re in chronic pain, you sort of lose yourself anyway, so there’s a lot going on.”
Fibromyalgia, also called fibromyalgia syndrome (FMS), is a long-term condition that causes pain all over the body, according to the NHS.
Rheumatoid arthritis is described as a long-term condition that causes pain, swelling and stiffness in the joints.
After taking a number of years out, Young was able to return to present some of the BBC’s coverage of the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee celebrations earlier this year, as well as the closing moments of the late monarch’s funeral at St George’s Chapel in Windsor.
The broadcaster said she wanted to find the right words to end the programme and sum up the magnitude of the historic day, but admitted: “I did really have a bit of a moment. It was emotional.”
The Christmas Day episode also marks the end of Desert Island Discs’ 80th year. Young interviewed 496 castaways during her time on the show.
Reflecting on the programme’s appeal, she said: “I once described it as [having] a sort of hammock-like quality, just to fit itself around the person who is there.
“So, therefore, if it is a … Premier League footballer or if it is an astrophysicist, their music and the amount of time you spend talking to them, and then also the ways in and the ways out of the museum, are sort of beautifully soft and comfy.”
The full interview with Kirsty Young on Desert Island Discs will air on BBC Radio 4 and BBC Sounds on Christmas Day at 11.15am