Sex

My boyfriend is less experienced than me. How can I get him to relax and enjoy sex?
He has admitted to feeling anxious and wanting everything to be perfect. I know he will become more comfortable, in time, but is there anything I can do to help?
Pamela Stephenson Connolly
24, Jan, 2023 @8:00 AM

A message to the NHS: disabled people like having sex, too | Cathy Reay
A sexual health checkup became an ordeal – and underlined the accessibility issues people such as me face, says Cathy Reay, a writer on disability and relationships
Cathy Reay
23, Jan, 2023 @10:00 AM

My wife is so stressed by work she doesn’t want to have sex. What can I do?
I do my best to relax her but now we only have sex when she initiates it
Pamela Stephenson Connolly
17, Jan, 2023 @11:00 AM

Jack review – talking-penis comedy is coy with the knob gags
Jack the talking penis introduces the ‘human male’ to whom he is attached. And so begins a juvenile student comedy that isn’t very comical
Cath Clarke
17, Jan, 2023 @9:00 AM

It’s 2023, where are the sex robots? ‘They will probably never be as huge as everyone thinks’
For at least a decade, researchers have speculated that sex with robots is just around the corner but that is yet to materialise
Tory Shepherd
13, Jan, 2023 @2:00 PM

I love pleasuring my partner. But why do I never get anything in return?
It seems unfair to ask for something they may secretly dislike, but I feel as though my enjoyment is secondary
Pamela Stephenson Connolly
10, Jan, 2023 @8:00 AM

A sex worker with an ankle tag – Bruce LaBruce’s best photograph
‘I realised he was under house arrest, for breaking and entering. This was during my partying days – it was business as usual back then’
Interview by Tim Jonze
04, Jan, 2023 @4:00 PM

I climax after 30 seconds of sex. What should I do?
I have a problem with premature ejaculation, and numbing spray only spoils the mood
Pamela Stephenson Connolly
03, Jan, 2023 @8:00 AM

Six sexy things you might not know about Australian wildlife | Jess Harwood
Guess who has a clitoris?
Jess Harwood
02, Jan, 2023 @8:47 PM

A meeting with a Hollywood madam in 1990
Alex Adams, unrepentant Tinseltown procuress, claimed to have launched the career of Heidi Fleiss.
Emma Beddington
01, Jan, 2023 @6:00 AM

My partner and I are both grieving. Sex might help us cope – but he has lost interest
We have had seven happy, loving years together. But I’m feeling the need for physical comfort
Pamela Stephenson Connolly
27, Dec, 2022 @8:00 AM

I’m sexting my brother’s widow – and we’re both loving it. Should we stop for the sake of our families?
She says she has wanted me for ‘decades’, while I’m finally enjoying life after an abusive relationship. Would it be wrong to embrace this chance of happiness?
Pamela Stephenson Connolly
20, Dec, 2022 @8:00 AM
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