Blind date: ‘Did we kiss? Just a little bit’

Joseph, 23, a digitiser, meets Cole, 22, a postgrad student

Joseph on Cole


What were you hoping for?

To meet someone new and have a nice meal.

First impressions?
He was cute – great hair – and better than I was expecting. I got lost so was a bit late and he was already there.

What did you talk about?
Differences between the UK and the US. Politics. Pubs. Favourite movies (Toy Story 2). University … He was really easy to talk to.

Any awkward moments?
Only that all the restaurant staff knew exactly why we were there.

Good table manners?
Yeah, I basically followed his lead.

Best thing about Cole?
Really easy to talk to, asked lots of questions and had really interesting things to say. He’s really smart, too.

Would you introduce Cole to your friends?
Yeah, if they behave themselves.

Describe Cole in three words.
Smart, American, sweet.

What do you think Cole made of you?
I hope I came across well – maybe even funny.

Did you go on somewhere?
We just walked around talking until we got to a tube station – I turned into a bit of a tour guide. It was the middle of the week so we both had to get home.

And ... did you kiss?
Just a little bit.

If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
More veggie options at the restaurant.

Marks out of 10?
A solid 8.

Would you meet again?
Hopefully. We talked about it and exchanged numbers.

Blind date is Saturday’s dating column: every week, two strangers are paired up for dinner and drinks, and then spill the beans to us, answering a set of questions. This runs, with a photograph we take of each dater before the date, in Saturday magazine (in the UK) and online at theguardian.com every Saturday. It’s been running since 2009 – you can read all about how we put it together here.

What questions will I be asked?
We ask about age, location, occupation, hobbies, interests and the type of person you are looking to meet. If you do not think these questions cover everything you would like to know, tell us what’s on your mind.

Can I choose who I match with?
No, it’s a blind date! But we do ask you a bit about your interests, preferences, etc – the more you tell us, the better the match is likely to be.

Can I pick the photograph?
No, but don't worry: we'll choose the nicest ones.

What personal details will appear?
Your first name, job and age.

How should I answer?
Honestly but respectfully. Be mindful of how it will read to your date, and that Blind date reaches a large audience, in print and online.

Will I see the other person’s answers?
No. We may edit yours and theirs for a range of reasons, including length, and we may ask you for more details.

Will you find me The One?
We’ll try! Marriage! Babies!

Can I do it in my home town?
Only if it’s in the UK. Many of our applicants live in London, but we would love to hear from people living elsewhere.

How to apply
Email blind.date@theguardian.com

Cole on Joseph


What were you hoping for?

A friendly face in an unfamiliar city. I’ll also admit to hoping to meet someone special.

First impressions?
He walked in two minutes late, which is a respectable time to arrive.

What did you talk about?
So much! Three hours talking to someone new is a long time and we made good use of it.
Any awkward moments?
My not-very-romantic questions about how to live in London, like, “Do you have a Travelcard or do you use pay-as-you-go?”. He laughed at me for those.

Good table manners?
I didn’t notice anything off.

Best thing about Joseph?
He’s unafraid to talk about what he’s passionate about.

Would you introduce Joseph to your friends?
Right now, no – I tend to be a little closed about these things. But after a few more dates, maybe.

Describe Joseph in three words.
Relaxing, smart and conversational.

What do you think Joseph made of you?
I like to think he enjoyed my company – it didn’t seem like he wanted the night to end, which is a good sign.

Did you go on somewhere?
A sweet night walk across Tower Bridge.

And ... did you kiss?
There was a small goodnight kiss on the train home. Just enough to catch everyone’s attention, but not enough for a show.

If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
I would have taken my unfinished sides home from the restaurant.

Marks out of 10?
A well-earned 7.

Would you meet again?
I would.

Joseph and Cole ate at The Coal Shed, London SE1. Fancy a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com

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